B+C+B+C+B+C: Mommy and son

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Mommy and son

My camera phone makes photos sideways randomly, sorry.

I realized today that I don't have any pictures of just myself and Bennett. Even though my two youngest arrived at the same time, they still deserve as much individual attention as possible. And unlike mothers who have their children one at a time, I'm having to get used to two amazing concepts simultaneously: - I have two daughters and a SON. It's so crazy to say that to myself. Not quite real yet.
I love that I have a son. Before he was here I couldn't picture myself raising a boy. Maybe every mom feels that way about the opposite gender of their firstborn child. I only saw myself with little girls. Boys just seemed so.... gross. How mature is that, right? But that's how I felt! They just seemed uncuddly. Like all they want to do is go bug hunting and wrestle and pick their nose and put earthworms in their pockets. And boy clothes just aren't as cute as girl clothes. Sorry - it's the truth.
But... my little Bennett changed my outlook completely! I absolutely adore him. I call him my little man, my man cub, my baby B, my tough guy... he gives me the sweetest smiles, and falls asleep while staring at my eyes... there's nothing uncuddly about him! I'm so looking forward to seeing him grow up and become a toddler, a little boy, a young man, a grown man.... wow - so overwhelming to imagine! My little Bennett is going to be a man someday. Hopefully one a lot like his father. He already looks a lot like him - so I'm told. I don't really see it. But I don't think my girls look like me either, and I've been told I'm wrong on that one.
In this photo he's wearing his first tie. It's pink, because he's cool with his manhood and not afraid to wear "girly" colors.

But most of the time I keep him in blues and dark greens... because he's a BOY and I love that.

1 comment:

Debbie said...: Yep, Bennett is a boy. "Little" boys are cool - "medium" boys are okay - "large" boys can be really cool again.; October 19, 2010 at 8:50 PM

Quotes I want to remember

"The Lord knows our bearing capacity, both as to coping and to comprehending, and He will not give us more to bear than we can manage at the moment, though to us it may seem otherwise. Just as no temptations will come to us from which we cannot escape or which we cannot bear, we will not be given more trials than we can sustain."
- Neal A. Maxwell

"It is a fundamental truth that the responsibilities of motherhood cannot be successfully delegated. No, not to day-care centers, not to schools, not to nurseries, not to babysitters. We become enamored with men's theories such as the idea of preschool training outside the home for young children. Not only does this put added pressure on the budget, but it places young children in an environment away from mother's influence."
-Ezra Taft Benson

“Perhaps there has never been a time when we had greater need to pray and to teach our family members to pray. Prayer is a defense against temptation. It is through earnest and heartfelt prayer that we can receive the needed blessings and the support required to make our way in this sometimes difficult and challenging journey we call mortality.”
-Thomas S. Monson

“Live the gospel as conspicuously as you can. Keep the covenants your children know you have made. And bear your testimony! Don’t just assume your children will somehow get the drift of your beliefs on their own.
-Jeffrey R. Holland

"We hold in our arms the rising generation. They come to this earth with important responsibilities and great spiritual capacities. We cannot be casual in how we prepare them. Our challenge as parents and teachers is not to create a spiritual core in their souls but rather to fan the flame of their spiritual core already aglow with the fire of their premortal faith."
-Neil L. Andersen

"Certainly there are times when getting the family together to read the scriptures does not stack up as a spiritual experience worthy of a journal entry. But we must not be deterred. There are special times when the spirit of a son or daughter is just right and the power of these great scriptures goes down into their heart like fire. As we honor our Heavenly Father in our homes, He will honor our efforts."
-Neil L. Andersen

President Hinckley admonished both men and women to be nurturers. He said, ‘How much more beautiful would be the society in which we live if every father . . . and . . . mother regarded [their] children . . . as gifts from the God of heaven . . . and brought them up with true affection in the wisdom and admonition of the Lord.’ ”
-Susan W. Tanner

"Children are like trees. When they are young, their lives can be shaped and directed, usually with ever so little effort. Said the writer of Proverbs, 'Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it' (22:6). That training finds its roots in the home. There will be little of help from other sources. Do not depend on government to help in this darkening situation. Barbara Bush, wife of former U.S. president George Bush, spoke wisely: 'Your success as a family, our success as society, depends not on what happens at the White House, but on what happens inside your house.' "
-Gordon B. Hinckley

“I give counsel to husbands and wives. Pray for the love which allows you to see the good in your companion. Pray for the love that makes weaknesses and mistakes seem small. Pray for the love to make your companion’s joy your own. Pray for the love to want to lessen the load and soften the sorrows of your companion.”
-Henry B. Eyring

“Reverent behavior is not a natural tendency for most children. It is a quality that is taught by parents and leaders through example and training. But remember, if reverence is rooted in love, so is the teaching of it. Harshness in our training begets resentment, not reverence.”
-Margaret S. Lifferth

"There is no one perfect way to be a good mother. Each situation is unique. Each mother has different challenges, different skills and abilities, and certainly different children. What matters is that a mother loves her children deeply and, in keeping with the devotion she has for God and her husband, prioritizes them above all else."
- M. Russell Ballard

“As parents, we should remember that our lives may be the book from the family library which the children most treasure. Are our examples worthy of emulation? Do we live in such a way that a son or a daughter may say, ‘I want to follow my dad,’ or ‘I want to be like my mother’?”
-Thomas S. Monson

“Security for our families comes from learning self-control, avoiding the excesses of this world, and being temperate in all things.”
-Kent D. Watson

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Mommy and son

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