B+C+B+C+B+C: Church ~ why do I bother?!

Monday, July 25, 2011

Church ~ why do I bother?!

It's kindof cliche - all the mothers wandering the halls with their young'uns say it - "why do I even bother coming...."Because at moment, it seems so pointless. We're not hearing the speakers. Our kids aren't getting anything out of it (besides lots of snacks). We distract others who COULD be actually learning/worshipping as we're supposed to do on the Sabbath. I DO pack snacks/books/toys... they're just not as exciting as running around the pews, obviously. Actually - chairs, not pews. Oh how I'd love to sit on the softer pews again. But nope - we have to be in the back on the hard chairs. Even if we were actually on time and found a spot on the soft pews, we've learned from experience that we just make more of scene sitting nearer the front, as there's more of an audience behind us.
We end up sitting out in the foyer. Or sometimes it's worse and we go find a nearby classroom that has a speaker connected to the chapel. Then we can close the door and just let the kids sit wander the room while we listen.

So why go?! For appearances? Showing-up points? An excuse to put on makeup and try to look decent? A little religious educational time at Nursery for Brianna? I don't know.
We go - every week, never missed since the babies were 2 weeks old - because we know that's where we're supposed to be. It will get easier someday, and we'll have the right habits.

On a semi-related note...

Riding an elevator to get to our garage. Weeeeiiirrrddd.

With the 4th of July and the 24th of July (Pioneer Day - even bigger than the 4th around here), there was an abudance of patriotic-dressed children at church. Of course, I didn't wanna be seen as a communist, so I had to join in. I just hope I didn't cross the line into the obnoxious category. Because some people not only crossed the line, but blew up into annoying combinations of red, white, and blue star vomit.

3 comments:

DeAnne said...: great post. I feel that same way, usually every other week when Justin has to work. katelyn thinks brianna is cute.; July 28, 2011 at 5:16 PM
Lisa-Lou-Who said...: I am pretty sure communists would approve of the wearing of red... but that note aside: I definitely know what you mean about crossing the cute/vomit line. It seems like lots of people go way too far into sick-land. And I don't mean sick like "good sick". BAD sick.; July 28, 2011 at 9:13 PM
Debbie said...: You could of dressed them in red, white and blue.; July 29, 2011 at 11:00 PM

Quotes I want to remember

"The Lord knows our bearing capacity, both as to coping and to comprehending, and He will not give us more to bear than we can manage at the moment, though to us it may seem otherwise. Just as no temptations will come to us from which we cannot escape or which we cannot bear, we will not be given more trials than we can sustain."
- Neal A. Maxwell

"It is a fundamental truth that the responsibilities of motherhood cannot be successfully delegated. No, not to day-care centers, not to schools, not to nurseries, not to babysitters. We become enamored with men's theories such as the idea of preschool training outside the home for young children. Not only does this put added pressure on the budget, but it places young children in an environment away from mother's influence."
-Ezra Taft Benson

“Perhaps there has never been a time when we had greater need to pray and to teach our family members to pray. Prayer is a defense against temptation. It is through earnest and heartfelt prayer that we can receive the needed blessings and the support required to make our way in this sometimes difficult and challenging journey we call mortality.”
-Thomas S. Monson

“Live the gospel as conspicuously as you can. Keep the covenants your children know you have made. And bear your testimony! Don’t just assume your children will somehow get the drift of your beliefs on their own.
-Jeffrey R. Holland

"We hold in our arms the rising generation. They come to this earth with important responsibilities and great spiritual capacities. We cannot be casual in how we prepare them. Our challenge as parents and teachers is not to create a spiritual core in their souls but rather to fan the flame of their spiritual core already aglow with the fire of their premortal faith."
-Neil L. Andersen

"Certainly there are times when getting the family together to read the scriptures does not stack up as a spiritual experience worthy of a journal entry. But we must not be deterred. There are special times when the spirit of a son or daughter is just right and the power of these great scriptures goes down into their heart like fire. As we honor our Heavenly Father in our homes, He will honor our efforts."
-Neil L. Andersen

President Hinckley admonished both men and women to be nurturers. He said, ‘How much more beautiful would be the society in which we live if every father . . . and . . . mother regarded [their] children . . . as gifts from the God of heaven . . . and brought them up with true affection in the wisdom and admonition of the Lord.’ ”
-Susan W. Tanner

"Children are like trees. When they are young, their lives can be shaped and directed, usually with ever so little effort. Said the writer of Proverbs, 'Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it' (22:6). That training finds its roots in the home. There will be little of help from other sources. Do not depend on government to help in this darkening situation. Barbara Bush, wife of former U.S. president George Bush, spoke wisely: 'Your success as a family, our success as society, depends not on what happens at the White House, but on what happens inside your house.' "
-Gordon B. Hinckley

“I give counsel to husbands and wives. Pray for the love which allows you to see the good in your companion. Pray for the love that makes weaknesses and mistakes seem small. Pray for the love to make your companion’s joy your own. Pray for the love to want to lessen the load and soften the sorrows of your companion.”
-Henry B. Eyring

“Reverent behavior is not a natural tendency for most children. It is a quality that is taught by parents and leaders through example and training. But remember, if reverence is rooted in love, so is the teaching of it. Harshness in our training begets resentment, not reverence.”
-Margaret S. Lifferth

"There is no one perfect way to be a good mother. Each situation is unique. Each mother has different challenges, different skills and abilities, and certainly different children. What matters is that a mother loves her children deeply and, in keeping with the devotion she has for God and her husband, prioritizes them above all else."
- M. Russell Ballard

“As parents, we should remember that our lives may be the book from the family library which the children most treasure. Are our examples worthy of emulation? Do we live in such a way that a son or a daughter may say, ‘I want to follow my dad,’ or ‘I want to be like my mother’?”
-Thomas S. Monson

“Security for our families comes from learning self-control, avoiding the excesses of this world, and being temperate in all things.”
-Kent D. Watson

Monday, July 25, 2011

Church ~ why do I bother?!

3 comments:

Pageviews last month